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The Sweetness of Forgetting

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2012

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Chapters 25-33Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 25 Summary

Rose’s chapter begins with a recipe for overnight meringues. Rose recalls a hot day in July 1980. She could hear Josephine fighting with her latest boyfriend, and she felt that she had failed to teach her daughter how to love. Ted held her, and Rose thought about how she loved him, not with an open heart, but as best she could. She never let Ted in, and her daughter thus learned to push people away. Hope returned from the beach, and Rose went outside to play with her. Rose told Hope a fairy tale about a princess in a new country, still waiting for her prince.

Chapter 26 Summary

Hope takes Gavin to Battery Park and finds Jacob at the railing, looking at the Statue of Liberty. She recognizes him because he looks like Annie. She introduces herself as Rose’s granddaughter, and Jacob hugs her, overcome. Jacob asks to see Rose.

Chapter 27 Summary

Jacob realizes that Hope must be his granddaughter. He is pained to learn that his daughter, Josephine, died. Hope thinks again of Ted and his devoted care of his family and his sacrifices for them. Jacob is startled that Hope knew nothing of Rose’s past and tells his story of meeting Rose, being involved in the French resistance effort against the Nazi occupation, and how he and Rose talked of going to America for religious freedom. He confirms that he sent Rose to the Grand Mosque. He and his father hid during the roundups, but they were later apprehended by the French police. The family was sent to Auschwitz, where his father, mother, and sister died. However, Jacob survived because he had made a promise to come back for Rose. He looked for her in Paris, then he came to New York and had been looking for her there, but he didn’t know that she had changed her last name. He surprises Hope by telling her that he and Rose were married. They stop for gas at twilight, and Hope watches the stars come out. She hugs Gavin and cries.

Chapter 28 Summary

Rose’s chapter begins with the recipe for Star Pie—her favorite recipe. Rose feels that the water she is swimming in is beginning to turn colors, reminding her of the fabric of her wedding gown. She hears Jacob’s voice and begins to surface.

Chapter 29 Summary

Annie notices that Mamie is waking up. Mamie is stunned to see Jacob and Alain. Jacob says that he has waited 70 years to see her again. Annie asks who Leona is and learns that she was Jacob’s little sister. Jacob kisses Mamie, and Hope thinks of the Sleeping Beauty fairy tale; she realizes that, for 70 years, her grandmother has “lived a sort of half life” (324).

Chapter 30 Summary

Mamie passes away in her sleep, with Jacob at her side. Hope feels like a hole has opened in her life. She and Jacob discuss Ted, who met Rose in Spain in 1942, after his plane was shot down. Rose believed that Jacob was dead, so she married Ted and returned to the United States with him, in part so that Josephine could be a US citizen. She changed the date on Josephine’s birth certificate so that no one would question that Ted was the father, because he could not have children due to his injuries. Rose promised Ted that she would not tell Josephine the truth. Jacob suspects that Ted might have known he was alive when he came to Paris in 1949, but lied to Rose because he, Ted, wanted to preserve the family they had built. Jacob says that Hope and Annie are his legacy, and Hope can honor where she came from by following her heart. The next morning, Hope finds that Jacob has passed away. They bury him next to Mamie so that he can be beside his love.

Chapter 31 Summary

Hope turns down Gavin’s invitation to a date, insisting that a relationship between them could never work out. She worries about losing the bakery. She, Annie, and Alain celebrate Hanukkah before Alain returns to Paris. He tries to tell Hope to believe in love, but Hope feels that her heart is frozen solid. On December 30, Hope gets a call from the lawyer handling Mamie’s will. She learns that Jacob left Hope his estate of over $3 million, and Mamie has left Hope enough money to buy the bakery outright. The lawyer tells Hope that she was the center of her mother’s life, whether she felt it or not. It was only at the end of her life that Josephine realized how much she loved Hope. Hope goes home to read Mamie’s letter.

Chapter 32 Summary

Rose’s letter shares the truth of her history, describing her love for Jacob. Rose admits that she married Ted to make sure that Josephine would be safe, and she never told him she’d been married to Jacob. She fears that the legacy she leaves will be that of a cold heart, and she advises Hope to find love.

Chapter 33 Summary

Hope, weeping from the letter, looks up at the stars. She sees two of them crossing the sky together and believes that it is Jacob and Mamie. She calls Gavin and invites him over, wishing him a happy new year, and they kiss.

Chapters 25-33 Analysis

In addition to settling the remaining plot points, these chapters offer a resolution for all the major character arcs and wrap up the major themes. Memory, which has been painful for Rose and something she avoided, now offers solace as she reflects on tender moments with Alain, Jacob, and Hope. Furthermore, Jacob is restored to the family, ending the quest he has been on, as the prince of Mamie’s fairy tale, for 70 years. He leaves Hope and Annie a lesson about believing in and holding onto love.

The romantic conflict resolves in this section as Hope eventually learns to open her heart. Along with the example of Jacob’s devotion to Rose, Hope has the examples of her grandfather Ted and her mother, Josephine, to reconcile with her beliefs about love. She thinks of Ted’s love as sacrificial because he offered complete devotion to Mamie, Josephine, and Hope, while knowing that Rose’s love for him would only ever be partial. Hope, in contrast, does not grieve the loss of her marriage. At one point Rose imagines herself a castle that Ted has never conquered; Hope has the same intricate and solid defensive structures. It takes a great deal of persuasion—and knowing the bakery and her future are safe—before she admits to Gavin how she feels. Matt disappears; he has no further function in the novel, as Gavin is the one whom Hope will eventually accept.

These chapters offer several reconciliations and settlements, not only between Mamie and her loved ones but between Hope and Jacob, Hope and Alain, and Hope and Annie, who have returned to a more loving and companionable relationship. The fortune Jacob leaves to Hope is in part a fairy tale ending, magically allowing her to keep the bakery—he and Mamie both play the part of the fairy godmother in that respect. The inheritance highlights the theme of Generational Inheritance and Family Traditions, making it possible for the bakery, and the recipes Mamie acquired from her own family traditions and others, to continue to be Hope’s livelihood.

Hope finally realizes, upon learning her family history, that the bakery has a new value for her. Keeping it going honors Jacob and Mamie’s legacy, just as she continues Rose’s habit of looking to the night sky and identifying her loved ones among the stars. The symbol of the stars gains resonance at the end as they are guides for Hope, reminders of the past, and echoes of the Star of David by which the Nazis marked the Jewish people. The novel’s title, The Sweetness of Forgetting, is both true and ironic, since Harmel explores the importance to survivors for stories of the Holocaust to be told to process the immense trauma of such an event; however, she also suggests that, for Rose, forgetting was part of her survival until she began to lose her ability to remember at all. Hope’s reconciliation with her past has healed her grief and made it possible for her to have a future filled with loving and fulfilling relationships and work she enjoys.

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